We are all taught to avoid talk of sex, politics and religion in polite conversation. But polite isn’t a standard often considered in politics today.

Politics has always been (and likely will always be) contentious. Our country’s Founding Fathers designed our legislative process to be chaotic and combative, knowing that scholarly discourse often leads to more thoughtful policy solutions. But such civil discourse has no room for malicious ad hominem attacks designed to play on our base instincts rather than intellect. We can and should be better.

In this republic of ours, we have to remember that our political leaders are a reflection of us. We ask citizen legislators to make difficult public policy decisions on behalf of all of us. We often forget that this is not an easy task that few are willing to do.Unfortunately, many would rather simply sit on the sidelines and spew hateful comments than proactively engage in finding solutions to contentious issues that require compromise and pragmatic solutions.

We can disagree on the issues in a manner that isn’t personal, but instead deliberative and productive. As voters, citizens and contributors, we should demand more of ourselves and our thought leaders alike.

In Oklahoma, we are lucky to have conscientious leaders who have remained focused on growing our state’s economy and creating jobs in spite of much baseless personal criticism.

We must stand with them and let our leaders know that while we might not agree with every decision they make, we appreciate their tireless effort to make Oklahoma a better place to live and work. When we disagree, we can let them know why in a productive manner that elevates the dialogue that, in the end, will help produce better policy. To do anything else is a dereliction of duty on our part as a citizen and taxpayer of this state.

Fred Morgan is president and chief operating officer of The State Chamber of Oklahoma.